So, now I am SAHM, and my son has compiled an outstanding list of what he wants to be when he grows up. Everyday I reinforce what he needs to focus on to be able to do any of those things. Focus on math and science and read, read, read, because reading will make you smarter.
Do you know what his question to me is now? Since I am not working, what do I want to be when I grow up? Ummmm..... I explain again how I will be staying at home to be there for them and take care of things. "Well, yeah, but you HAVE to DO SOMETHING?!?!" He says.
Well, geeze. I guess as a SAHM I am not seen as doing very much, or very accomplished, and I am only on week in of being 100% SAHM!! I personally felt I was being very productive. The house is in tip top shape, we are eating home cooked healthy meals, we have done an outing almost everyday to include a trip to the Alamo because my son was learning about it in school, I workout everyday, all errands have been run, the yard looks fantastic, the car looks fantastic, the kids are highly taken care of, the kids and I started an herb garden and a flower garden and my husband has had the freedom to travel for work for the last two weeks. This is just what i came up with off the top of my head. But, to my five year old, I have to DO something! This has really made me think, not only about how to get the kids to see the part I play in this family and what I contribute, but also, what am I going to be when I grow up?
SAHP (stay at home parents) Have you found it difficult for your kids to see the contributions you make, or your accomplishments? What do you want to be when you grow up (or when the kids grow up)?
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